What is MyFriskyBusiness? MyFriskyBusiness is a premier lifestyle group in Long Island, NY, dedicated to creating a safe, fun, and welcoming environment for individuals and couples exploring consensual non-monogamy, swinging, and polyamory. Our diverse and inclusive community welcomes members of all races, colors, religions, and sexual orientations, fostering a vibrant space for connection and exploration.
Who can attend events at MyFriskyBusiness? Attendance policies vary by event type. On-premises events, where private rooms for intimate activities are available, are open exclusively to couples and single women. Single men, however, are invited to our off-premises events such as meet-and-greets and social mixers, ensuring opportunities for everyone to engage.
Do I need to be in a relationship to participate?
No, you don’t need to be in a committed relationship to participate. MyFriskyBusiness welcomes individuals, couples, and polyamorous dynamics to join our inclusive community. Please note, however, that single men are not permitted at on-premise events but are welcome at off-premise social gatherings like meet-and-greets.
I’m new to swinging/polyamory. Can I still join? Of course! Many of our members are new or curious about the lifestyle, and joining MyFriskyBusiness is a great way to start exploring. We provide a welcoming and supportive environment for you to learn at your own pace. You’ll find other newcomers as well as experienced members who are happy to share advice and insights. Whether you’re looking to socialize, learn, or simply observe, you’ll feel right at home in our inclusive community.
What if I feel nervous or unsure about attending? It’s completely normal to feel this way! Our events are designed to be pressure-free, and our friendly staff and members will help you feel at ease. We recommend starting off off-premise meet-and-greet where you can meet like-minded adults in a secure setting.
We’re curious but nervous about exploring this lifestyle. Any advice? Take it slow and communicate openly with your partner. In the lifestyle, it’s important to move at the pace of the slowest person in the relationship to ensure everyone feels comfortable and respected. Attending one of our meet-and-greets is a great way to dip your toes into the lifestyle in a relaxed and pressure-free environment. Open communication and mutual understanding are key to enjoying and exploring together.
Are there rules for attending events? Yes, we have clear guidelines to ensure everyone feels safe and respected. These include obtaining explicit consent before engaging in any activities, respecting boundaries, and adhering to our group’s dress code and behavior policies. Security personnel are also present at all events to enforce these guidelines and ensure everyone feels secure.
What is the difference between on-premise and off-premise events? Both types of events have security staff on-site to maintain a safe and respectful environment for all guests.
On-Premise Events: These are held at our private venue and include access to rooms where consensual sexual activity can take place. These events are open only to couples and single women.
Off-Premise Events: These are social gatherings, such as meet-and-greets, held at external venues. Single men, single women, and couples are all welcome to attend.
How does MyFriskyBusiness ensure safety? Your safety is our top priority. We enforce a zero-tolerance policy for harassment, provide staff monitors during events, and require all members to agree to our code of conduct. We also encourage open communication and consent at all times. We employ professional security staff at all events to uphold these standards and address any concerns promptly.
Is my privacy protected? Absolutely. We understand the importance of discretion. Your personal information is kept confidential, and we have policies in place to ensure that all members and guests respect each other’s privacy.
Isn’t this technically cheating?
Not at all. Cheating involves breaking the trust or boundaries set in a relationship, whereas the lifestyle is centered around open, honest communication and mutual consent. Swinging and polyamory are about exploring connections together or individually in ways that are agreed upon by all parties involved. It’s about enhancing relationships through trust and shared experiences, not undermining them.
Membership and Events
What types of events does MyFriskyBusiness host? We offer a variety of exciting events tailored to every comfort level, including pool parties, themed parties, cruises, off-premise meet-and-greets, private gatherings, and luxurious vacations to Hedonism resorts in Negril, Jamaica. These events create memorable experiences, and our friendly staff and sponsors are here to provide connections and support.
Can I bring a friend or guest?
Of course! Guests are always welcome, but they must adhere to our guidelines.
What makes MyFriskyBusiness different from otherLifestyle groups?
MyFriskyBusiness stands out because of our focus on inclusivity, respect, and community. In addition to hosting diverse events like pool parties, cruises, and exotic getaways, we provide a safe and judgment-free space for people to connect, learn, and explore.
How do I stay updated on upcoming events?
Members receive exclusive access to our events calendar and newsletter. Follow us on social media for the latest updates:
What should I wear to events? Dress codes vary, but the general rule is to dress to impress! Some events feature themed attire, and attendees who embrace the theme may receive small discounts as a gesture of appreciation. Specific guidelines are provided in event descriptions to help you look and feel your best.
What happens if I don’t want to participate in certain activities? Participation is always optional. You’re welcome to simply socialize and enjoy the atmosphere. Consent and comfort are fundamental to our community. Everyone is encouraged to explore only what they feel comfortable with, and our events are designed to create an inclusive space where no one feels pressured. Remember your "no" is always respected, and your boundaries are valued. If at any time you feel uncertain or uncomfortable, our staff and security are available to support and assist you.
How do I approach someone at an event? Respectfully and kindly! A friendly smile and a polite introduction go a long way. Always respect others’ boundaries and wait for clear signals of interest. Our DJs are skilled at creating a lively atmosphere that helps guests relax and socialize naturally. Don’t hesitate to join the dance floor or participate in activities to break the ice.
What is expected when engaging in the lifestyle? Communication and consent are key. Always ask for clear, enthusiastic consent before engaging in any activities. Respect boundaries and be mindful of the comfort levels of everyone involved.
What should I do if I feel uncomfortable at an event? Your comfort and safety are our priority. If you ever feel uncomfortable, please inform a member of our staff or security team immediately. They are there to address concerns and ensure everyone feels safe.
Are there guidelines for interacting with other guests? Yes, we encourage friendly and respectful interactions. Avoid pressuring others into conversations or activities and take "no" as a complete answer without further persuasion.
What role does discretion play in the community? Discretion is vital. Do not discuss other members or their participation outside of the group. Respecting privacy ensures a welcoming and secure space for everyone.
Do we have to participate as a couple, or can we explore individually? For on-premise events, couples must attend together. Off-premise events allow for more flexibility, depending on your comfort level and dynamic.
